What rubs me the wrong way are the two phrases: "it's your responsibility" and "it's your duty". I would prefer if he didn't tell me what my duties were. Inste

What rubs me the wrong way are the two phrases: "it's your responsibility" and "it's your duty". I would prefer if he didn't tell me what my duties were. Instead he could try to motivate me in a positive way to think of these people who need help. Please use positive motivation, not negative one.