> By catering to my every whim, in effect they make me a tyrant over them, which is not a role I like. Exactly - so by this logical path, should we just ignore

> By catering to my every whim, in effect they make me a tyrant over them, which is not a role I like. Exactly - so by this logical path, should we just ignore the rider, if he doesn't want us catering to him?