Maybe you should choose meetups for those of your hobbies that are not directly related to your career. I mean, it is likely that if you are a programmer you'l

Maybe you should choose meetups for those of your hobbies that are not directly related to your career. I mean, it is likely that if you are a programmer you'll end up talking about work in a programming or startup meetup. It will be much harder if it's about boardgames or ultimate frisbee.