I honestly don't mean anything by it, and I'm genuinely curious about what you mean by, "having to deal with it." It just seems so trivial to me that I'm intere

I honestly don't mean anything by it, and I'm genuinely curious about what you mean by, "having to deal with it." It just seems so trivial to me that I'm interested in why someone might consider it a hassle. There was a man I went to school with that was a woman when I first met him. A guy who lived on my floor used go to Bill, but now everyone calls him William. No 'dealing with' required. Again, not trying to dismiss your experience or to imply anything, just curious.