"A safe reason to be hanging out." That really cuts to the heart of it -- I've always had a 'disability' where I am immensely social if I have an 'excuse' and

"A safe reason to be hanging out." That really cuts to the heart of it -- I've always had a 'disability' where I am immensely social if I have an 'excuse' and just abysmal without one. Seeding the environment somehow would make all the difference for me; wonder to what degree it's generalizeable?