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Let's take an ounce of effort to post the whole quote shall we? Speaking to the US TV show The Rubin Report about campus free speech, safe spaces and trigger w
by pharke 11y ago
Let's take an ounce of effort to post the whole quote shall we?
Speaking to the US TV show The Rubin Report about campus free speech, safe spaces and trigger warnings on literature.
"In terms of how they think, they can’t bear complexity. The idea that things aren’t easy to understand, they want to be told, or they want to be able to decide and say, ‘This is good and this is bad,’ and anything that conflicts with that is not to be borne.
There are many great plays which contain rapes, and the word rape now is even considered a rape, if you say: ‘you can’t watch this play, you can’t watch Titus Andronicus, or you can’t read it in a Shakespeare class, or you can’t read Macbeth because it’s got children being killed in it, it might trigger something when you were young that upset you once, because uncle touched you in a nasty place’, well I’m sorry.
It’s a great shame and we’re all very sorry that your uncle touched you in that nasty place, you get some of my sympathy, but your self-pity gets none of my sympathy because self-pity is the ugliest emotion in humanity. Get rid of it, because no one’s going to like you if you feel sorry for yourself. The irony is we’ll feel sorry for you, if you stop feeling sorry for yourself. Just grow up.”
Context matters, you can dice up anyone's words to make them say what you like but it doesn't prove a point, it's still a deception, and you're still doing everyone the disservice of assuming that you know better than they do to make up their minds for them. Grow up.
- zwischenzug 11y agoThis from a man who described in great detail his near-suicide experience following the 'Cell Mates' breakdown? What was that if not self-pity? Should we have felt no sympathy for him? Or is that too complex? I wouldn't take any so-called wisdom from this man.
- coldtea 11y ago>This from a man who described in great detail his near-suicide experience following the 'Cell Mates' breakdown? What was that if not self-pity? So? That would only prove he can wallow in self-pity too. Which he has admitted already anyway, and condemned even in himself. It certainly doesn't prove that self-pity is not as bad as he says. So he is right. As for him doing it, it doesn't even make him a hypocrite (since he admits it) -- just fallible. Like an ex (or even current) drug addict sincerely warning people that drugs are bad and that they shouldn't do them. Not only are they right -- but they also speak from personal experience.
- zwischenzug 11y agoIt behooves him to be more empathetic, especially if he's suffered from the same difficulties and he's speaking out in public about it.