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Cool. You've now crippled the a girls self-esteem, where as using the nice way would give her the ability to lie to herself whilst making sure to never ask aga
by ownagefool 11y ago
Cool. You've now crippled the a girls self-esteem, where as using the nice way would give her the ability to lie to herself whilst making sure to never ask again.
- stcredzero 11y agoYou've now crippled the a girls self-esteem I find this weirdly Victorian. I should treat grown women as fragile flowers that can't take a straight answer?
- ownagefool 11y agoWhich is the same way they treat you. I don't think it's my fault this escapes you but I must admit, it's neither really based on logic nor efficacy, it's a social thing. Put more emphasis on "I want to avoid an awkward situation" and "I don't want to hurt their feelings" less on "but people are adults" and you're pretty much there though.
- qb45 11y ago> lie to herself whilst making sure to never ask again. How is this a good thing? It just confuses people.