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As a woman, I like to send several messages to make sure the guy seems safe to meet. Sometimes in the course of those messages, I find the guy creepy and don't
by notaguy 11y ago
As a woman, I like to send several messages to make sure the guy seems safe to meet. Sometimes in the course of those messages, I find the guy creepy and don't meet him. Also even if it's only ten minutes, there's the time involved in getting to the location to meet, etc.
- narrowrail 11y agoNot to be pedantic, but you should meet in a public space the first time no matter what 'seems safe' to you.
- notaguy 11y agoI do. I really dislike the guys who want to go hiking or do something private the first time I meet them. It's a huge red flag for me.