About the 'accept but don't communicate'... I've watched friends, boys n girls, just swipe everything without looking. Then when they get a match, they look and

About the 'accept but don't communicate'... I've watched friends, boys n girls, just swipe everything without looking. Then when they get a match, they look and consider it. Essentially they're optimising for themselves. Why do the filter work on a group of maybe's, when you can filter on a smaller group of certainties? So if someone accepts you and does't reply, I'd say nowadays (not 1-2 years ago), it's pretty likely they didn't change their minds, but simply decided for the first time you're not for them. Other than that, don't read into it too much. I've got one pretty attractive friend, easy 7, who doesn't match shit, in fact we were laughing about it among friends (including him) a few weeks ago, he hadn't been on a date in months and he was definitely trying. Keep ya head up! :)