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Meetups where you slap a sticker on your shirt to let others know you're single? Do you not think this is just sad and you're trying too hard? Finding a "soulma
by sakopov 11y ago
Meetups where you slap a sticker on your shirt to let others know you're single? Do you not think this is just sad and you're trying too hard? Finding a "soulmate", if you believe in such things, or really just a genuine connection works best when you're not pursuing it out of pure desperation and just enjoy your life. I'd made some of the most amazing connections by pure chance under the most random circumstances when neither I nor they were looking for anyone.
- cellularmitosis 11y agoThis is probably great advice for people whom match your assumption of what "just enjoying your life" entails. But if "just enjoy your life" involves staying at home and making computers do interesting things, then this is terrible advice. "Slapping on a sticker" is much more likely to meet with success than staying at home.
- alashley 11y ago"Just enjoying your life" usually sounds a lot like complacency to me when it comes to dating.