Honesty that may be part of your problem. Think of Tinder as meeting someone in a virtual bar — you're not going to spend a hell of a lot of time on what you op

Honesty that may be part of your problem. Think of Tinder as meeting someone in a virtual bar — you're not going to spend a hell of a lot of time on what you open with. All you're going for is something just interesting and personal enough to actually start a conversation. If you're regularly sending opening messages more than a sentence or two long, you're probably investing way too much effort to start out.