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To begin, I think this was a perfectly healthy and rational conversation, and that no one involved was in the wrong, in any way. That said, I think this may sh
by rjeli 11y ago
To begin, I think this was a perfectly healthy and rational conversation, and that no one involved was in the wrong, in any way.
That said, I think this may show one reason men are enticed to "take the red pill." Morbidhawk claimed that his marriage was in shambles until he changed the way he acted toward his wife, and that she was irrational and entitled. Without knowing his situation, most repliers accused him of not being sympathetic enough for his wife, and then that his wife was actually working much harder than he gave her credit for.
It's difficult for me to avoid bias, but I'm trying, and the point I want to make is that TRP preaches looking at the situation and social dynamics objectively, without contemporary cultural filters, and this is attractive to those who may have had experiences contrary to what that contemporary culture preaches.
- Mz 11y agoI am actually really sympathetic to the fact that men have to put up with a lot of bullshit misandry these days. I sometimes blog about my opinions about gender issues. I try to be even-handed. I am apparently successful enough (at being edven handed) that my own blog posts sometimes make the front page of HN. I do my best to try to promote respectful dialogue between the genders. I do not believe man bashing or woman bashing is a great path forward here for the world. I do my best to walk the walk. This is my personal blog: http://micheleincalifornia.blogspot.com/ http://micheleincalifornia.blogspot.com/ Purely coincidentally, since it gets updated erratically, the most recent post is titled A Few Good Men. FWIW, I suspect the fact that I am not some kind of man-hating bitch likely factors into my prominence on HN in spite of my gender.