Took me until a few years ago (36yo right now) to really come to terms with this, and since then the seedling has grown tremendously. That martyr syndrome ran r

Took me until a few years ago (36yo right now) to really come to terms with this, and since then the seedling has grown tremendously. That martyr syndrome ran rampant in my early work years, and it implanted bad habits from the beginning. I still haven't been able to fully decouple myself from carrying work around as if it is my actual reason for being, but the unburdening has commenced. And anyone trying to figure it out, just spend some time thinking about the title of this thread. It's not so much about reconfiguring my schedule or "hacking" my time management (tho that helps), it's was the mindset changed that led to the "oh, shit" moment(s).