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>I think one of the biggest reasons people don't give themselves a work-life balance is peer pressure and the desire to please others first. This is the root o
by altotrees 10y ago
>I think one of the biggest reasons people don't give themselves a work-life balance is peer pressure and the desire to please others first.
This is the root of the issue in my opinion. When I fail to achieve work/life balance, it is usually due to one of two things:
1. To please my direct co-workers, manager, CEO.
2. To please everyone else — that is, make enough to live the way I envision other people expect me to be living, and doing the things I imagine them expecting me to be doing.
Living for even the imagined expectations of others can take a heavy toll. It took time to unlearn that way of thinking.