Exactly - thank you. It's somewhat depressing to see the number of people who either don't understand this concept, or think that somehow it doesn't apply in th

Exactly - thank you. It's somewhat depressing to see the number of people who either don't understand this concept, or think that somehow it doesn't apply in this case. It reminds me of Tobias Fünke in Arrested Development, when asked if open relationships ever work, saying "No, it never does. I mean, these people somehow delude themselves into thinking it might, but ... But it might work for us."