Solidangle probably didn't know anything about your personal background. So you have no right to accuse him of being insensitive. Also, it's good that you wer

Solidangle probably didn't know anything about your personal background. So you have no right to accuse him of being insensitive. Also, it's good that you were able to turn a bad situation into something good. However, the mere fact that you, individually, managed to succeed doesn't mean there's not a problem that's worth talking about. Your personal story is relevant, but anecdotal.