> It's just a boring "Oh i thought she was hot and I > messaged her" kind of thing. Just a stone's throw from "oh, I thought she was hot and I walked over

> It's just a boring "Oh i thought she was hot and I > messaged her" kind of thing. Just a stone's throw from "oh, I thought she was hot and I walked over to her" except that your scenario has the benefit of not being dependent on physically chancing across cute women as you romp through your daily life. You're not Hugh Grant in a romantic comedy, so all that matters is that you're getting the results you want and enjoying the ride. Online dating doesn't stop you from attending singles night at the roller rink, but it might give you more opportunities to find what you're looking for. That it's your Brave New World seems more indicative of personal self-limiting hangups about what courtship should be vs. what it actually is.