HN is probably the first online forum for highly opinionated views. Without able to back up this view you are getting downvoted. Checking goolge for hints: ht

HN is probably the first online forum for highly opinionated views. Without able to back up this view you are getting downvoted. Checking goolge for hints: https://www.google.com/search?q=women%20first%20thing%20notice&rct=j https://www.google.com/search?q=women%20first%20thing%20noti... It appears that most of the things listed on the first 10 pages of google hits are related to physical look (height, tooth, hands, etc.) and some is related to financial background and taste (clothing for example). I am not sure what does holistic mean in this context though. In my experience women attracted to physical look and self confidence the most, yet I know that sample is not representative. It would be nice if you could back up your comment with data.