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This is one of those curious cultural things that are well-accepted in a handful of countries and seem completely loony to the rest of the world. America has it
by Freak_NL 11y ago
This is one of those curious cultural things that are well-accepted in a handful of countries and seem completely loony to the rest of the world. America has its engagement ring culture I guess. The phrasing of the article title says a lot.
I spent €100 on a lovely antique necklace for my fiancée, knowing full-well that she would call me crazy and feel unpleasantly embarrassed if I spent more on it. Meanwhile you come across stories of American men spending several monthly salaries on diamond engagement rings simply because they are expected to. Fascinating how such a custom has such strong inertia, despite all the critical voices denouncing it — not in the least because of the harmful way diamonds are mined.
Refreshingly, the geekier types seem to lean towards all sorts of creative alternatives, such as lab-grown diamonds, alternative unencumbered gem stones, and the coolest space-age metals.
- al2o3cr 11y agoIt's less of a "culture" and more of a "deliberately engineered desire resulting from decades of covert marketing in mass media". Worth reading up on if you're curious how things we think "just are" got that way...
- xellisx 11y agohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5kWu1ifBGU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5kWu1ifBGU For a TLDR; version.