Are we talking professional or personal here? You seem to be jumping between the two. A server purchased for your work is not _your_ server. It is a company as

Are we talking professional or personal here? You seem to be jumping between the two. A server purchased for your work is not _your_ server. It is a company asset. If you buy a server for yourself and your little brother messes with it, go ahead and get mad and lash out. If your business has procured a new asset, you are tasked with managing it and someone else gets in your way (junior or not), deal with it like a professional.