Interesting comments here on Fred's experiences. I agree with some commenters that more context is needed, but I think the key point(s) missed. This is about ci

Interesting comments here on Fred's experiences. I agree with some commenters that more context is needed, but I think the key point(s) missed. This is about civility,tact,compassion, humility and communication. Civility is not something you innately have,but is learned (or not in some cases) and quite frankly many people do not know what that is. Tact clearly was not used in some instances. Compassion was lacking in the perceived arrogance and defensiveness shown. Humility can go hand in hand with compassion in realizing you are not the "shit". Communication, or the lack thereof, can contribute to the situations that occurred and that too is a learned behavior and not innate. I can empathize with the situations and it is always good to be aware as a way to foster your growth and understanding.