The thing that bugs me the most aren't incidents like these (which honestly don't seem all that bad) but general "patterns". One I've seen pop up again and agai

The thing that bugs me the most aren't incidents like these (which honestly don't seem all that bad) but general "patterns". One I've seen pop up again and again is "ask me about something > I give you my professional advice > ignore it > come to me after you screwed things up by ignoring my advice > now I have to fix it". Have seen this at every one of my jobs as a developer/manager.