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Charming? Drive through any single family detached neighborhood in America during the summer and count how many people are actually enjoying their yards. Where

by hacknat 11y ago

Charming? Drive through any single family detached neighborhood in America during the summer and count how many people are actually enjoying their yards. Where you see charm some of us see waste. Grass is ugly and so are single detached family homes. Row houses look nice, so do skyscrapers. Inventing a simulacrum for the country estate and calling it a "dream" is a bad joke I'd like everyone to start laughing at. This is it. This is the mother of all bad policies in the USA! From keeping African Americans out of our neighborhoods via red lining, to increased police presence, to one generation's artificial chokehold on the housing stock. Americans should feel nothing but disgust for most of our housing policy, and single family homes should be derided as one of single worst allocation of resources the American public makes. People defend these things as lifestyle choices, and almost never live into the carrying capacity of the asset they buy. It is one lifestyle choice I feel comfortable judging. Just so no one thinks I don't have any skin in the game I do have a child.

nickpsecurity 11y ago
I live in one of those areas. I mock their attachment to yards. I do love that we have plenty of space that's ours under our rules. That's front for public stuff, back for semi-private, an insulated house for noise reduction (love that), and so on. As often is with suburbs, it's close enough to big city to get its benefits without its problems. It's all that for under a grand a month. Is all that normal for the big cities with dense, multi-story housing?
greggman 11y ago
My father built our 20x30ft family room add on. He built it to be sound proof enough that he could practice his drumming and not annoy the neighbors. I don't think he'd be able to do that in most apartments
mattmanser 11y ago
You're a delusion fool if you think row houses are nice, especially as the aesthetic of the house is the least important part of living in it. I live in the UK where they are common, they're a nightmare to live in, you can hear people arguing or babies screaming 4 houses down. A lot of houses are detached but very close to each other or semi-detached (linked to one other house). Both are far more pleasant to live in than row houses or sky scrapers.
diskcat 11y ago
>Americans should feel nothing but disgust for most of our housing policy, and single family homes should be derided as one of single worst allocation of resources the American public makes. In your opinion. Some people think driving cars are bad. Some people think eating meat is bad. Some people think space heating is a waste of electricity. Everybody seems to think their particular way of living is perfect and everybody else is either too wasteful or doesn't know how to live. Your argument really is just "this is my subjective opinion of how to live and people who disagree are wrong".

by hacknat 11y ago

nickpsecurity 11y ago

I live in one of those areas. I mock their attachment to yards. I do love that we have plenty of space that's ours under our rules. That's front for public stuff, back for semi-private, an insulated house for noise reduction (love that), and so on. As often is with suburbs, it's close enough to big city to get its benefits without its problems. It's all that for under a grand a month. Is all that normal for the big cities with dense, multi-story housing?

greggman 11y ago

My father built our 20x30ft family room add on. He built it to be sound proof enough that he could practice his drumming and not annoy the neighbors. I don't think he'd be able to do that in most apartments

mattmanser 11y ago

You're a delusion fool if you think row houses are nice, especially as the aesthetic of the house is the least important part of living in it. I live in the UK where they are common, they're a nightmare to live in, you can hear people arguing or babies screaming 4 houses down. A lot of houses are detached but very close to each other or semi-detached (linked to one other house). Both are far more pleasant to live in than row houses or sky scrapers.

diskcat 11y ago

>Americans should feel nothing but disgust for most of our housing policy, and single family homes should be derided as one of single worst allocation of resources the American public makes. In your opinion. Some people think driving cars are bad. Some people think eating meat is bad. Some people think space heating is a waste of electricity. Everybody seems to think their particular way of living is perfect and everybody else is either too wasteful or doesn't know how to live. Your argument really is just "this is my subjective opinion of how to live and people who disagree are wrong".