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Yes. There's even something about the "tone" of this piece that screams "spectrum" to me. As far as I know there's not reliable evidence that smart people hav
by tryitnow 11y ago
Yes. There's even something about the "tone" of this piece that screams "spectrum" to me.
As far as I know there's not reliable evidence that smart people have fewer friends. In fact, I would hypothesize just the opposite. This is pretty easily testable.
It sounds like he has a combination of Aspergers and depression. It's telling that he doesn't mention seeking out a mental health care provider. That sounds like the best course of action.
It's noteworthy that he was raised in a Christian household. Frankly, most religions do not do a good job of taking mental health seriously.
I sympathize with this post because I was raised as a conservative Christian and I had little to no exposure to modern mental health ideas when I was growing up.
I ended up struggling massively with depression in my twenties because of it. Finally, therapy and medication helped to change my life for the better, in a way religion* never did (and probably couldn't).
I hope this guy gets good professional help. Apparently, he's a coder so he can probably afford it. That would go a long way to solving his problems. It's also the truly "smart" thing to do.
* This is not meant to disparage religion, there are plenty of good, well-qualified Christian therapist. Whatever your belief system, a trained professional is probably your best bet.