Of course I would. In fact, that is an excellent metaphor. At least in my family, we follow the following pattern to arrive to a decision: We choose what we w

Of course I would. In fact, that is an excellent metaphor. At least in my family, we follow the following pattern to arrive to a decision: We choose what we want for the family, we discuss the possible paths, and we decide where we invest the resources of the family. In others words, we have a form of government. What we don't do is this: We discuss and decide about nothing, because we trust that the result of the forces of our internal interactions it's the only true path to 'optimal' outcomes.