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You're either capable of completing a project, or you aren't. If you've had trouble with this your whole life, it's unlikely this will change. It's just who you
by schammy 17y ago
You're either capable of completing a project, or you aren't. If you've had trouble with this your whole life, it's unlikely this will change. It's just who you are.
Don't be offended. It sucks, but it's reality. Some people do, some people don't.That's the way it is.
/awaiting mass downvotes
- nico 17y agoI agree with you about people not changing, people seldom change and it is a very long process, not something you can just choose and do in one day. On the other hand, I believe there are some things you can do about it in this case and try to play to your strengths. Anyway, I'm struggling with pretty much the same problems as the OP, a few years ago I was diagnosed with ADD and was given Ritalin. I didn't like taking Ritalin and it didn't help very much anyway. The thing is you create bad habits, so even if you are taking some meds, you still have those habits and repeat them. I have now decided that I'm not flawed, but only lost. It seems there's not much place in the world for ADD people. But I'm not giving up, I don't want to change who I am, I want to find where can I fit in and use my strengths. I just bought the book "Delivered from Distraction" and got it yesterday. Today I read the intro and seems like a good read. I hope it helps.