"... the desire to have a child with your loved one" Another element: I didn't plan on having a kid, I just didn't take consistent enough precaution and had o

"... the desire to have a child with your loved one" Another element: I didn't plan on having a kid, I just didn't take consistent enough precaution and had one pregnancy over a ten year relationship. I don't regret it, but I wouldn't have had children if it was done through careful pre-planning.