No, it's still arrogant and condescending. Telling a fat person they're fat, in the context of a discussion about their health, is fine. Telling them they're fa

No, it's still arrogant and condescending. Telling a fat person they're fat, in the context of a discussion about their health, is fine. Telling them they're fat and then saying "Sorry for your diabetes and early death" is being a dick. It doesn't matter if you're right, it's unnecessary.