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Would you say it is unnatural to assume that a mother is more likely to be preoccupied with her baby than the father? If the plan is for the father to take over
by facepalm 11y ago
Would you say it is unnatural to assume that a mother is more likely to be preoccupied with her baby than the father? If the plan is for the father to take over, why not mention it while fundraising?
Even so, there is physical strain that is likely to take a toll on the mother, which might cost a few productive months. Breastfeeding might also be an issue, waking the mother several times per night.
- st3v3r 11y agoBecause it's nobody's business what the home life plans are.
- facepalm 11y agoWhat makes you entitled to receiving somebodies money, though? If they feel they want to know about your home life, and you don't want to tell, why should they be obliged to give you money? It's fine if you want to keep it private, but other people have the right to spend their money as they wish, too.
- st3v3r 11y agoNobody said anything about being entitled to someone else's money. So put that straw man away.
- ergothus 11y agoYou've raised questions as if I had made an argument in the opposite. Instead, I asked purely for clarity. It's always a challenge to resolve the "separate but equal" concepts that arise from a mix of different biologies and desire for egalitarian society. I asked for the clarity because I wanted any such discussions to be directed at the right audiences, in the right context. Apparently I failed at that, since you felt I was taking a strong position.