>and so do you. Don't even pretend you don't, no one will believe you. You're projecting a bit. I try hard -- consciously -- not to shut down and shut out peop

>and so do you. Don't even pretend you don't, no one will believe you. You're projecting a bit. I try hard -- consciously -- not to shut down and shut out people who need grace as much as I do (either more or less externally-visibly). Your own code of ethics is not universal. There are people who think and operate differently from you. Which is exactly the point of not discriminating whenever it's avoidable.