> If personal politics and beliefs are not apart of the talk, I don't care. You can't separate the two. Spouses invited to a speakers dinner? What if my spouse

> If personal politics and beliefs are not apart of the talk, I don't care. You can't separate the two. Spouses invited to a speakers dinner? What if my spouse is also a man? What if my spouse is a different race? Should we give priority to people of color and women in the speaker selection process? Are trans people allowed in whichever bathrooms they want? Giving a talk on preventing fraud and abuse, where part of your belief system is "women should be free to give opinions online without bullying, trolling and harassment?" How are you supposed to give that talk without communicating a value system?