I suppose it's a question of utility. If universities truly (I doubt this is really true) cannot afford to pay everybody's tuition then how do you prioritize ne

I suppose it's a question of utility. If universities truly (I doubt this is really true) cannot afford to pay everybody's tuition then how do you prioritize need? One could argue that as someone from a wealthy family that you have a decent safety net if you fail even with large student loans. You probably have a place to stay at your parents home if you really needed it. Contrast that to someone who might be poor and have the same loans as you do but perhaps they don't have their parents' illiquid assets to fall back on. This happened to me around my senior year of college. It's a scary thought that once you're done with college you need to get a job or be homeless. It lead to a lot of stress in the fall semester of my senior year while I was job hunting. It also stands to reason that if you're from a wealthy family then you had access to a good education. I can't understate how unprepared I was for college being from a poor school district even through I was in the honor classes! Poor students play a lot of catch-up in college early on. This is really hard to do when you're also trying to work 20 hours a week to afford food. I'm not saying it's fair that you have so much debt but if it's zero-sum for financial aid I can understand why you were not given any over poor students whose parents are equally not able to pay. You're not thinking about the external factors that statistically probably put you ahead over a lot of poor students. Unfortunately that is life all we can really do is make sure our kids don't have the same problems!