I see where you're coming from, and on the one hand it is admirable, but on the other hand: This is all fine and dandy when say you're working for a non-profit

I see where you're coming from, and on the one hand it is admirable, but on the other hand: This is all fine and dandy when say you're working for a non-profit, or DWB, or open source or whatever else betterment of mankind. The point here is that sure you're doing what you love and that's enough for you, but the only one benefitting from it is your employer. If you don't feel that you need that money, negotiate for it and donate it to something of your choice and feel even better about what you're doing, but don't line someone elses pockets with your benevolence. That's my 2 cents.