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Facebook is a growing and unstoppable digital graveyard
- elcapitan 11y agoIn the future, people will only be dead for a short moment, then a Facebook AI will take over and keep on posting and replying, generating new photos and liking your posts.
- scholia 11y agoOr even without Facebook. From the linked BBC story: Consider a robot that was commissioned by the entrepreneur Martine Rothblatt, called Bina 48. The robot is almost identical in appearance to Rothblatt’s wife, and contains a database of her speech and memories. Rothblatt, author of Virtually Human and the CEO of United Therapeutics, is a transhumanist whose motto is "death is optional". Rothblatt foresees a near-future world in which the dead can be reanimated thanks to mind clone software that can allow avatars to think and respond and be in an eerily similar way to those they’re cloning.
- Aleman360 11y agoReal life Black Mirror
- TwoFx 11y agoRandall Munroe of xkcd had a (humorous) look at when the number of dead people on Facebook surpasses the number of living people a few years ago: https://what-if.xkcd.com/69/ https://what-if.xkcd.com/69/
- jacquesm 11y agohttp://jacquesmattheij.com/deadbook-the-long-term-facebook http://jacquesmattheij.com/deadbook-the-long-term-facebook
- cm2187 11y agoA few years ago I saw appearing in my facebook feed a link shown as shared by my deceased father, a month after he passed away. I still wonder if his account had been compromised or if facebook was disguising sponsored links as shared by one of your contacts. Either way not very tasteful.
- empressplay 11y agoIt was probably an app that had posting permissions on the account. I think if you notify Facebook that the person has died (and provide some sort of proof) they switch the account over to "memorial" status (which can't post, etc.)
- parfe 11y agoI needed zero proof to memorialise the profile of a deceased friend. Didn't even have the exact date of his death, let alone any documentation. It had been over a year, so I guess Facebook took a look at the profile activity and wall posts and decided it was a legit request.
- bobbyi_settv 11y agoThis has been an issue for a while: http://readwrite.com/2012/12/11/why-are-dead-people-liking-stuff-on-facebook/ http://readwrite.com/2012/12/11/why-are-dead-people-liking-s...
- specialist 11y agoOne of my coworkers passed away after being quite sick for a while. Facebook had been his primary social outlet, keeping everyone updated, coordinating stuff, medium for support and encouragement. His Facebook account got stolen and then used it for spam. It was pretty hard on his family, close friends. Seems like Facebook should support use cases for someone to claim an account (like hospitals special case power of attorney, next of kin, etc).
- dave2000 11y agoYep, always a nice surprise when you're using your phone, decide to check Facebook and get a "your year in Facebook" featuring your now-dead best friend, and an ex-girlfriend. Thanks for that, Facebook.
- zdkl 11y ago"Inadvertent Algorithmic Cruelty", welcome to the future.
- peter_bakelaw 11y agoI don't understand your complaint. Do you think an individual person at Facebook did that to you for a laugh? If they're just a selection of your photos for the year, then what's wrong with them showing them to you? People seem to be so fragile. I don't think being shown your own photos, or photos that people have tagged you in (in accordance with your privacy settings) is really a big deal. Get over it.
- hobs 11y ago>People seem to be so fragile. I don't think being shown your own photos, or photos that people have tagged you in (in accordance with your privacy settings) is really a big deal. Get over it. Have some humanity. Whether or not it was an algo emotional trauma is real, and telling people to just get over their dead friend or their ex-girlfriend is the height of rudeness. If Facebook wants to host all the world's personal content then it will have to address problems like these or breed a significant amount of additional human pain.
- peter_bakelaw 11y agoI didn't tell anyone to get over their dead friend. I said to get over being so over-fragile that they're upset at being shown a photo of the friend when you visit a website that is literally designed for photos of you and your friends. If being shown a photo of a friend who died is emotional 'trauma', then I'm not sure how you cope with day-to-day life and I recommend you stay in bed where it is safe.
- binarymax 11y agoI tried, and failed, to 'memorialize' my fathers Facebook page. It became more and more full of crap from unhinged friends and distant relatives posting things they think he would have liked. I left Facebook over a year ago, and this is one of the things that drove me away. I could no longer stand seeing posts of shit videos with the tag line "Donny would have loved this!", just so the poster could score some likes from the clan.
- StevePerkins 11y agoThat's truly awful, but can't people still post to 'memorialized' pages anyway? I have a dear friend who passed several years ago, and I believe her page was memorialized... but people still post "Miss you" messages every year on her birthday.
- beeboop 11y agoThat, along with "Donny would have liked this" posts both seem rather nice to me. It's seems a little cynical to assume they're doing it for likes from other family members. I think it's a nice and natural way to reminisce with your family about those who have passed on. I think it'd be heart warming if people posted about me on my FB years after I passed away.
- ethanbond 11y agoIt is cynical, but it's also some well-founded cynicism, given that people do such wild things for the Likes.
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- mirimir 11y agoAt some point, people will indeed continue "living" online. It will be a gradual process, I suspect. People will increasingly rely on AI to handle routine stuff. To fake paying attention. And gradually, those AIs will become indistinguishable from their owners.
- voltagex_ 11y agoThe Black Mirror episode called "Be Right Back" deals with this in an unnerving sci-fi context
- mirimir 11y agoThanks. Missed that series. I haven't watched much video in recent years. I've been reading a lot more. Mostly SF. But I do recall liking how Caprica handled this. AI augmentation could get very strange. Imagine an AlphaGo like approach to becoming better at your profession. Maybe as a politician, even. You just read from the prompter. I'm reminded of Primer, where characters were repeating dialog from recordings.
- voltagex_ 11y agoWorth watching that one episode - but be warned, it messed with my head for a while afterwards.
- basicplus2 11y agosurely Facebook could simply hive off accounts not logged into after say one year.
- wimagguc 11y agoI've been thinking of this for a while: if you share quite a lot of things about your life, then, a good enough AI a few decades from now can learn - well, you. 'What would you ask from grandma if she were still alive?' becomes 'ask your grandma now'
- zemvpferreira 11y agoThat's the premise for a great Black Mirror episode: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Be_Right_Back_(Black_Mirror) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Be_Right_Back_(Black_Mirror)
- spdionis 11y agoThis is explored in one of the episodes of the anthology Black Mirror. It's pretty interesting. I don't remember exactly which episode but you should check it out.
- jmsdnns 11y agoThey should get facebook.rip.
- flurdy 11y agoand = an ? Should the bbc title not be "Facebook is a growing an unstoppable digital graveyard" ? Not being pedantic but not sure if that typo is intentional.
- radiorental 11y agoNo, not sure where you got your wires crossed but you can have either; Facebook is a growing and unstoppable digital graveyard or Facebook is growing an unstoppable digital graveyard but not Facebook is a growing an unstoppable digital graveyard
- flurdy 11y agoAh yes. missed the 'a' :) Though option 2 in your list would have been a concise and good enough title.
- jchrome 11y agoI think the last quote of the article is telling: "The truth," writes Borges, "is that we all live by leaving behind." Honestly, why can't we all heed this advice and just leave Facebook behind? The second we all stop looking at it the second it stops being so important. I hardly ever check FB anymore.
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- komali2 11y agoI don't understand how this is relevant - it's a technology people use to stay connected, share photos, and communicate. Is there some issue you have with this? The article wasn't commenting on the moral implications of facebook or even the beat-to-death privacy issues.
- jchrome 11y agoPlease explain how it is irrelevant. If you cease paying attention to FB, then your deceased loved ones no longer continue this "digital life" as the article puts it.
- darkclarity 11y agoThis is the primary reason why I deleted my Facebook account. I couldn't stand the thought of being run over some day and having no way of stopping the creation of a virtual memorial owned by Facebook's stakeholders. I'd be turning in my grave.
- faceoflies 11y agoYeah Facebook honestly does suck, it basically becoming MySpace.
- Lasher 11y agoIt's been over 6 years now since my father passed away and still, every year, Facebook sends me a notification that it's his birthday. How many years without someone logging in before Facebook stops considering them a "user"? I did try to memorialize the page, they wanted me to fax his ID and death certificate, not going to happen, so the page will sit out there forever or until they have a change in policy I suppose.
- csydas 11y agoTo be fair, long absences from Facebook are likely not uncommon. Personally, I signed up when I was in University and it was restricted as such, stopped using it pretty much immediately, and only very recently after moving abroad did I start using it again to keep in touch with friends and colleagues, meaning a gap of almost 10 years. During that time, Facebook wasn't shy about reminding me that I wasn't using it, and frequently sent emails suggesting content on Facebook I might want to see. An auto-hibernate or shut down for accounts seems unlikely as it's contrary to their attempts at retention. I think death is just something that Facebook hasn't really taken the time to establish a good public protocol for; per your post, the behind the scenes protocol of "fax us an ID and death certificate" is probably outside the comfort zone of a lot of people. Maybe it would work for people to establish a series of emergency contacts and grant the contacts a page where a certain number (at least more than one) are needed to confirm the passing of a person, at which point the page moves into the memorialized mode. The process should also have safeguards to be reversible, just in case of pranks, and allow alternative proof methods just in case the contacts are unreachable/unwilling to confirm.
- jrnichols 11y agoI wonder how many dead people are still showing up as active users on dating sites like match.com/etc and are still getting messages from people.
- specialist 11y agoYa, that unsolicited yearly reminder is cruel. In the USA at least, death records are public information. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_Security_Death_Index https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_Security_Death_Index It'd be such an easy lift for Facebook to aggregate, correlate this information (just like ChoicePoint, Seisent, many others).
- noonespecial 11y agoArchaeologists will uncover the ancient memory talismans known as "hardisks" in the odd burial vaults the ancestors called "serv-are-ooms". The Facebook of the Dead.
- DyslexicAtheist 11y agoone of my friends died in a climbing accident in 2011 in Austria. LinkedIn still asks me to endorse him for his skills.