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> It is you; neuro-typical people don't have to "learn" how to read people, it's innate. I'm pretty sure I'm neuro-typical. At least I'm not atypical to the po
by Swizec 11y ago
> It is you; neuro-typical people don't have to "learn" how to read people, it's innate.
I'm pretty sure I'm neuro-typical. At least I'm not atypical to the point that it was ever a problem.
And I too had to learn how to read people. I could always read them innately, but after some conscious effort, it became like a superpower. People always say how great I am at knowing how they feel.
The real hard part, though, is learning how to emote back. Especially after moving to a different continent. It's really really hard to display appropriate emotions because, for the most part, knowing and understanding other people's emotions, just doesn't really trigger an emotional response. It's all on an intellectual level.
I've always wondered whether that was normal or not.
- gnaritas 11y ago> And I too had to learn how to read people. I could always read them innately, Then you didn't "have" to learn, you learned to be better than typical, completely different thing.
- forgetsusername 11y ago>you learned to be better than typical, Oh, so also atypical. It's almost like there isn't a typical for us to measure against. Who knew.