Men and women have equally freaky sexualities, and equally strong sex drives. AFAIK this is settled science by now. Women are justifiably terrified of being at

Men and women have equally freaky sexualities, and equally strong sex drives. AFAIK this is settled science by now. Women are justifiably terrified of being attacked, slut shamed to the extent of losing their career or custody of their own kids, blamed for their own rape/assault, or trapped by abusers. This has a tendency to cramp their style.