Some programmers do that, most don't. But more to the point, if you desire a work/life balance you absolutely can find a programming job that will allow it. It

Some programmers do that, most don't. But more to the point, if you desire a work/life balance you absolutely can find a programming job that will allow it. It'll pay less than the unpaid overtime job, but it exists, and will still pay more than most occupations.