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If the manager-employee relationship is not good, 1:1's do have the problems you described. But the cool thing is that 1:1's can also improve relationships and
by joshyeager 11y ago
If the manager-employee relationship is not good, 1:1's do have the problems you described. But the cool thing is that 1:1's can also improve relationships and build trust, which actually resolves those problems over time.
This doesn't work if you don't have some amount of trust to begin with. But I've found that over time 1:1's build trust and open communications because the frequent, consistent, small conversations help both parties learn about each other and work through issues together.
I do 1:1's as a manager with my employees and also as an employee with my manager, so I've seen this from both sides for the past 5-6 years. I am confident that our 1:1's have been the single biggest factor in the great relationships and high trust that we all have now.
- mc32 11y agoMy main concern is that while things are good things go well. A reinforcing feedback loop. But when things aren't going well people tend to recall the odd moments, take out the old notes and rely on "instinct" and interpret innocuous things in a different light.
- jevanish 11y agoThat's the whole point of a 1 on 1 though: to break down miscommunication, talk through situations, give and receive feedback, etc. If you do one on ones well, the trust and rapport you build in the good times will help you get through the bad because you're more comfortable having much needed conversations.