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> Maybe the porn just opened their eyes to what was possible. I think the point is less about the mechanics of sexual contact (which is what your more talking
by ErrantX 17y ago
> Maybe the porn just opened their eyes to what was possible.
I think the point is less about the mechanics of sexual contact (which is what your more talking about I think) as the interaction and emotional experience.
I watch a lot of pornography in my job; not in a sexual context but in a more abstract have to see the content way. It's quite an eye opener to see so much in an objective way.
In most porn the woman is highly submissive and either pleading for more pleasure or eager to provide sexual favours to the men. I find it hard to disagree with people that say pornography shows people (mostly, but not exclusively, the women) as objects - I do disagree with the conclusions they ultimately draw from that; but if people are emulating what they see as pornography in real life it's not the basis for a healthy relationship.
- sailormoon 17y agoWell, that's a whole different rabbit-hole you're jumping down there. My comments here have been seen as anti-female in the past so I'll refrain from airing my views on the matter but suffice to say I think sexual behaviour in general and pornography in particular reflects a very long-standing social dynamic. I have never known a man who was selected against because he was dominant.
- pyre 17y ago> I have never known a man who was selected against because he was dominant. Harem attendants where eunuchs for reason. :P
- derefr 17y ago> In most porn the woman is highly submissive and either pleading for more pleasure or eager to provide sexual favours to the men. So, where do you find this... not most porn?
- ErrantX 17y agoLesbian porn. Female Dom. female targetted porn. And all sorts of other genres. :-) There is also a small genre of pornography which shows realistic sex.
- randallsquared 17y agoAre you forgetting homemade porn? That seems like a much larger segment than those others, but is realistic by definition.
- tome 17y agoShould we automatically assume that when couples perform in homemade porn they're doing exactly what they would do off camera?