I think this is more a product of some aspects of society than just porn. Sex in porn is reall incredibly different to real life - it takes a level of naievity

I think this is more a product of some aspects of society than just porn. Sex in porn is reall incredibly different to real life - it takes a level of naievity and, probably, peer pressure to form that sort of impression. I think it's disingenuous to suggest it's causing these issues for everyone. Most of the described relationships just sound tucked up generally. The girl who dreads her boyfriends birthday seems as much the victim of her own silence as anything else!