If it bothers you and you are my friend, please just tell me, don't ask weird questions. I won't be offended enough to speak up against it, you will have a sli

If it bothers you and you are my friend, please just tell me, don't ask weird questions. I won't be offended enough to speak up against it, you will have a slight benefit of doubt and I'll be in the defense, but I will recognize your manipulative, slightly dishonest behavior. (manipulative, because you want to trick me in to something and dishonest, because you cover your true intentions instead of stating what you really want.)