You could make the same argument about all sorts of services. For example, I think Grindr also doesn't care about their community. I have some ideas how to fix

You could make the same argument about all sorts of services. For example, I think Grindr also doesn't care about their community. I have some ideas how to fix it - mainly ensuring users aren't hooking up with more than one person, and that neighbors of a Grindr user have a way to veto a house guest. To me that sounds kind of insane. I guess I just think that people should be allowed to do whatever they like in the privacy of their own bedroom, provided it doesn't harm others against their will.