I'm not advocating for putting people above reproach. And I'm alright with people being held accountable for social ineptitude. But I draw the line at awarenes

I'm not advocating for putting people above reproach. And I'm alright with people being held accountable for social ineptitude. But I draw the line at awareness: are they aware that the person doesn't want to be communicated to? I'm not interested in whether they think they're a nuisance or not (no one will ever admit to being one anyway), but having enough social awareness to understand that you are making a mistake and then doing it anyway is where I think "stalking" exists. Simply being "inept," I don't know if people can be held accountable for that. I personally couldn't blame someone who was too inept to understand that they were talking to someone who didn't want to be talked to. But once someone has specifically said they don't want to be talked to, it's pretty obvious.