I know what's up. That why I made the comment. It's more about what is said than the actual content of the statement itself. If I did the above, and someone ma

I know what's up. That why I made the comment. It's more about what is said than the actual content of the statement itself. If I did the above, and someone made a stink, I'd hit 'em with "Are you denying my lived experience?" and then reaffirm the validity of my self identity (which is what matters) over what I actually am to observers (which is immaterial and doesn't matter).