The thing is that most people don't know what they want. A lot of people think they know what they want, but very few do. Just the other day I had a snowball fi

The thing is that most people don't know what they want. A lot of people think they know what they want, but very few do. Just the other day I had a snowball fight, and it was great fun and a wonderful experience. When I woke up that morning it certainly wasn't in my calendar - I had totally forgotten how much fun fighting with snow is. Also, it's much more about the process than the goal. Notice that people who reach their goals simply set new ones, painters paint whether they're paid or not, hackers hack in their freetime, etc.