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I don't know of any other forums to discuss this stuff, other than philosophy seminars that I'm not invited to, so... what do you think about this? The polarit

by mbrock 11y ago

I don't know of any other forums to discuss this stuff, other than philosophy seminars that I'm not invited to, so... what do you think about this? The polarity between relativism and absolutism in morality is going to end up totally irrelevant, since it leads to nothing but squabbles and more confusion. It's not a productive way forward to try to decide which of those extremes is best, because they each have irreconcilable stances, and they both ultimately come down to arbitrary decision (either "because I feel this way" or "because the ultimate ineffable authority says so"). Even the new school of quasi-objective morality, á la Sam Harris, seems to fail to be convincing, inspiring, or even as rational as it wants to be. I think a realistic approach to morality should start with the question of what people actually care about. What values exist, in the actual society that I could conceivably influence? How does a person become respected, what motivates people, what appeals are possible? I have no influence over, say, Saudi Arabian Islam, except for maybe through some secular channels... Actually, the recent article about the global appeal of metal music was interesting. If there is any ethical content in the metal community, which I hypothesize that there is, then it could end up being a kind of covert channel for values... I'm reminded of the story of the Velvet Revolution, which ended Communist Party rule in Czechoslovakia without violence... and which was rooted in a story that involves The Plastic People of the Universe, an obscure experimental rock band inspired by the Velvet Underground, Frank Zappa, and Captain Beefheart. > "The Plastic People were ultimately a major catalyst to the overthrow of communism in Eastern Europe. History would most surely have been very different without them." http://www.furious.com/perfect/pulnoc.html http://www.furious.com/perfect/pulnoc.html Um, I'm heading for work and don't have time to think up a coherent way to end this. But a lot of my thinking is influenced by Richard Rorty's Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity. Just one more random speculation: the focus on "habits" subtly inforces a morality of stability. People who emphasize habits probably aren't going to say that the primary ethical injunction is to dismantle the existing structures of oppression. And you could argue that self-help, including mindfulness and much of psychology and psychiatry, has a stabilizing function within the capitalist system of labor.

rdancer 11y ago
> I don't know of any other forums to discuss this stuff, other than philosophy seminars that I'm not invited to You may like https://www.reddit.com/r/debateanatheist https://www.reddit.com/r/debateanatheist or http://www.reddit.com/r/debatereligion http://www.reddit.com/r/debatereligion.
- mbrock 11y ago
  Thanks! I'm not really interested in debating pros and cons of religion vs atheist though. It's not easy to find a serious discussion that can acknowledge the truths of both sides... maybe I need more friends who are sociologists or anthropologists.
  - fluxquanta 11y ago
    >It's not easy to find a serious discussion that can acknowledge the truths of both sides That's because we're not conditioned to debate for the sake of debate anymore. We debate for as long as it takes for the other side to get mad enough to stop talking to us or use personal insults or violence. Probably one of the most enjoyable experiences in the past 10 years of my life was staying up in a Waffle House until 4 or 5 in the morning debating whether or not an afterlife, any afterlife, exists, with a friend of mine from college that I hadn't seen in years. Neither of us "won" the debate or changed our minds, but we sat there (with our cell phones off) just coming up with ideas to try to sway the other person.
    - mercer 11y ago
      I used to attend a meetup that was specifically about discussing 'big' things. This would include philosophical questions, but also things like 'discipline', 'motivation', or 'work / life balance'. We had only two real rules. One: listen to each other and exchange viewpoints respectfully, so no (or only minimal) discussion centered around arguing or convincing the other of your viewpoint especially when the topics are sensitive (religion, for example). And two: keep things somewhat personal, and avoid purely abstract philosophical talk. In regards to the second (often contested) rule: the personal exchange makes the conversation relevant, promotes friendship and group bonding. On top of that it makes the meetup accessible to shy people or people who are not too into abstract debates (and who, interestingly, often occupied the crucial roles of creating group cohesion and continuity!). It also avoids getting into arguments because a supposed abstract viewpoint turns out to be more personal than the parties involved thought. Those kinds of arguments happened surprisingly often when we broke the rule. Furthermore, the abstract / philosophical debates would inevitably happen after the meetup with the people who enjoyed that kind of thing, and the personal conversation greatly enriched even the abstract stuff that would come later. I can highly recommend anyone who likes 'deep conversations' to join such a meetup or even organize one. Everyone involved in my meetup expressed how much they enjoyed, even needed this meetup in a sea of superficial social meetups and bar talk (which is also nice, just not enough for many of us). If you happen to live in The Netherlands, hit me up!
nefitty 11y ago
It's a fascinating point that you brought up there at the end. The self-help/positive psychology industry has indeed been accused of reinforcing status quo morality, that simply by urging people to make themselves fit in the world instead of urging them to change the world to fit their needs, those writers are complicit in the immoral aspects of the system. I don't see why habits necessarily have to favor the entrenched cultural norms, though. From what I glean, radical terrorist groups utilize habit formation in the form of literature, military training, etc. These same tools are used by legitimate militaries throughout the world. By that token, what exactly holds moral value in these two examples? I say the moral aspect is separate from habitual behavior. An interesting thing here then is that any truly effective political movement would take advantage of habit formation in support of it's ends. It's a powerful, cheap tool, and one that to me is completely amoral in the abstract. On that note, subcultures could push certain moralities by covertly reinforcing specific beliefs and behaviors.

by mbrock 11y ago

rdancer 11y ago

> I don't know of any other forums to discuss this stuff, other than philosophy seminars that I'm not invited to You may like https://www.reddit.com/r/debateanatheist https://www.reddit.com/r/debateanatheist or http://www.reddit.com/r/debatereligion http://www.reddit.com/r/debatereligion.

mbrock 11y ago
Thanks! I'm not really interested in debating pros and cons of religion vs atheist though. It's not easy to find a serious discussion that can acknowledge the truths of both sides... maybe I need more friends who are sociologists or anthropologists.
- fluxquanta 11y ago
  >It's not easy to find a serious discussion that can acknowledge the truths of both sides That's because we're not conditioned to debate for the sake of debate anymore. We debate for as long as it takes for the other side to get mad enough to stop talking to us or use personal insults or violence. Probably one of the most enjoyable experiences in the past 10 years of my life was staying up in a Waffle House until 4 or 5 in the morning debating whether or not an afterlife, any afterlife, exists, with a friend of mine from college that I hadn't seen in years. Neither of us "won" the debate or changed our minds, but we sat there (with our cell phones off) just coming up with ideas to try to sway the other person.
  - mercer 11y ago
    I used to attend a meetup that was specifically about discussing 'big' things. This would include philosophical questions, but also things like 'discipline', 'motivation', or 'work / life balance'. We had only two real rules. One: listen to each other and exchange viewpoints respectfully, so no (or only minimal) discussion centered around arguing or convincing the other of your viewpoint especially when the topics are sensitive (religion, for example). And two: keep things somewhat personal, and avoid purely abstract philosophical talk. In regards to the second (often contested) rule: the personal exchange makes the conversation relevant, promotes friendship and group bonding. On top of that it makes the meetup accessible to shy people or people who are not too into abstract debates (and who, interestingly, often occupied the crucial roles of creating group cohesion and continuity!). It also avoids getting into arguments because a supposed abstract viewpoint turns out to be more personal than the parties involved thought. Those kinds of arguments happened surprisingly often when we broke the rule. Furthermore, the abstract / philosophical debates would inevitably happen after the meetup with the people who enjoyed that kind of thing, and the personal conversation greatly enriched even the abstract stuff that would come later. I can highly recommend anyone who likes 'deep conversations' to join such a meetup or even organize one. Everyone involved in my meetup expressed how much they enjoyed, even needed this meetup in a sea of superficial social meetups and bar talk (which is also nice, just not enough for many of us). If you happen to live in The Netherlands, hit me up!

nefitty 11y ago

It's a fascinating point that you brought up there at the end. The self-help/positive psychology industry has indeed been accused of reinforcing status quo morality, that simply by urging people to make themselves fit in the world instead of urging them to change the world to fit their needs, those writers are complicit in the immoral aspects of the system. I don't see why habits necessarily have to favor the entrenched cultural norms, though. From what I glean, radical terrorist groups utilize habit formation in the form of literature, military training, etc. These same tools are used by legitimate militaries throughout the world. By that token, what exactly holds moral value in these two examples? I say the moral aspect is separate from habitual behavior. An interesting thing here then is that any truly effective political movement would take advantage of habit formation in support of it's ends. It's a powerful, cheap tool, and one that to me is completely amoral in the abstract. On that note, subcultures could push certain moralities by covertly reinforcing specific beliefs and behaviors.