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I vastly love being in a world where you can get answers. That said, I've noticed one trend in my younger co-workers and friends that is a little sad (to me).
by ergothus 11y ago
I vastly love being in a world where you can get answers. That said, I've noticed one trend in my younger co-workers and friends that is a little sad (to me).
I will often try to find concepts I don't know. Simple things like "Why do we say 'deceased'? Aren't they 'ceased'? If they are 'de-ceased', that leaves US as 'ceased'". I'm moderately curious, but mostly I enjoy finding the little perversities. Maintaining a sense of wonder, if you will.
Amongst my younger (I'm mid-to-late 30s, they are mid-to-late 20s) friends and co-workers, though, I typically get the response of "I don't know, what does google say?". Then they look it up, and stop wondering. (Sometimes the answer is pretty good, often it boils down to 'no one knows')
On the one hand, I'm glad to see people moving past the "I wonder..." stage towards GETTING answers. On the other, even when the answer is inadequate, they then stop wondering.
I'm curious if this anecdote is generally true, and if so, if it's a temporary fad in our relationship to information, or if this represents one step in a path of "permanent" change in our relationship to information.
I suppose I could google that...
- mlangdon 11y agoI jokingly enforce a no-googling-at-the-lunch-table rule on my millennial coworkers (I'm gen Oregon Trail). This allows for the type of fatuous speculation that makes for decent conversation. Occasionally I even give in to the need to know.
- klenwell 11y agoThis allows for the type of fatuous speculation that makes for decent conversation. Well put. Brings to mind "Modern Jackass" magazine from one of my favorite This American Life episodes: http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/293/a-little-bit-of-knowledge http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/293/a...
- nightpool 11y agoI dunno, I find Googling-enabled conversation to be just different, not necessarily better or worse then pre-Google convos. This might have more to do with me growing up with them though (also, I misclicked the upvote button and downvoted you instead, sorry!)
- k-mcgrady 11y agoGoogling'-enabled' conversation tends to end the conversation in my experience. Someone looks up the answer and we're done.
- vacri 11y agoI'm gen Oregon Trail as well, and I prefer fact-checking in conversation. It drives me nuts to see people run down a rabbit-hole for an hour over an obvious misconception. Online fact-checking doesn't really ruin conversations in my view, and it helps stop spread misinformation.
- acheron 11y agoHeh, are we embracing the "Oregon Trail generation" name then? This may be the first time I've seen a reference to it outside of a discussion of the group itself.
- pmarreck 11y agoI love that name but isn't it just another name for Gen X?
- sixo 11y agoTo my ear, it's a subset of Gen X, and definitely doesn't encompass all of Gen X culture.
- mlangdon 11y agoIt's approximately 1978 though '82. Basically the last generation that has a living memory of the before time, but grew up riding the crest of the wave of everything that happened over the past 30 years, technologically. Or, people who played Oregon Trail on Macs and Commodore 64s in grade school.
- riffic 11y agoApple ][, bah
- dragonwriter 11y agoThe dates don't match the description; from the (last, more specific) description, you'd need to drop back at least about 5, maybe closer to 10, years earlier on the start date for that "generation". Really, just thinking of it as "members of Generation X with an early and lifelong interest in technology" would probably work better than trying to carve it out as a narrower subset of Gen X by age.
- mlangdon 11y agoHere[1] is (I believe) the originating article. Meanwhile, the first really popular version of Oregon Trail came out in 1985[2]. Ultimately I just meant it as a jaunty shorthand for the intergenerational window in which I was born. If you were also born then and this does not jive with your experience, it's going to be okay, eventually. [1] http://socialmediaweek.org/blog/2015/04/oregon-trail-generation/ http://socialmediaweek.org/blog/2015/04/oregon-trail-generat... [2] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Oregon_Trail_(video_game) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Oregon_Trail_(video_game...
- herbetyukost 11y ago> I jokingly enforce a no-googling-at-the-lunch-table rule on my millennial coworkers Trying to control what other people can do... great joke! > fatuous speculation that makes for decent conversation Misinformed conversation... sounds awesome.
- mlangdon 11y agoYou seem fun! There's a deeply sarcastic culture of fake rules at my company, in which groove this fake rule fits precisely. Lunch time is generally understood as a time of bullshitting, conviviality and foosball. Every time we have to wait 30 seconds to find out, e.g., how many apple seeds you can eat without killing yourself, we are all richer for it.
- OJFord 11y ago> e.g., how many apple seeds you can eat without killing > yourself, we are all richer for it. I'm ashamed to say I had to know. I found two estimates: the seeds of 25, or of "over 2000" apples. Either way, we should be safe, and it just goes to show how much more fun wondering is than an extremely inconclusive answer.
- rangibaby 11y agoThat's where I would think "there's only one way to find out..."
- lmm 11y agoIt says something bad about us as a species if we can only enjoy a conversation when most or all of the participants are making large numbers of errors.
- ergothus 11y agoWe were talking about ignorance (not knowing, and speculating) vs being wrong (thinking you know, but being wrong). I've seen people move from speculating to assuming too often, but I don't see speculation as inherently wrong.
- lmm 11y agoI don't think there's anything wrong with speculation. But if speculation is more interesting than actual knowledge about the same subject then I think there's something wrong with that.
- ergothus 11y agoYou make a lot of sense...but I'm afraid I must run into the "wrong" category. The thing is, the topic under question is usually pretty pointless (see "deceased" example above, or my musing about how the first time bread "raised" must have been freaky, or any such thing). While learning a piece of trivia is _nice_, it's rarely as interesting as the act of speculation. Because I'm not really (all that) interested in the question at hand, I'm teaching myself (and regularly exercising the ability) to NOT KNOW, to DESIRE KNOWLEDGE, and to ACCEPT THAT SOME THINGS ARE BEYOND MY GRASP. It's good to find that somethings ARE in my grasp (answer someone gave about about "deceased" was the first time I've had that question answered!), but I get that lesson a lot in life. When I wrestle with the "big" questions (What should I do with my life? Am I happy right now? Why did this terrible thing happen to me? Does existence care about me? Why do I care if it does?) some comfort with the unknowable is good. When I'm dealing lesser "big" questions (Am I actually good at this, or am I just faking it and haven't be caught yet? Am I an insensitive ass to people around me? Can I really buckle down and get this project completed? Why the heck do people vote for <INSERT POLITICIAN HERE>?) I likewise want to have experience with both being able get answer as well as NOT being able to get answers. Learning is awesome. I love it. But I also need to be good at dealing with wanting to know, or dealing with being unable to know. Around me I see too many people of many ages that aren't interested in things they can't easily learn.
- Ensorceled 11y agoThat's odd, what kind of decent conversations are based on fatuous speculation on facts that are a google search away? I'd much rather have real conversation about politics, whether "The 100" is good TV, social issues, or just about anything really, than an argument about facts that could just be googled.
- mlangdon 11y agoYes, some people don't enjoy jokes. This is well documented. I'd rather talk about literally nothing than have another political conversation where I am either preaching to the converted or shouting at a stone wall.
- Ensorceled 11y agoWhere did you get that I don't enjoy jokes? Yeah, I'm seeing that mentioning "talking politics" on a mostly American forum immediately labels you as a "debbie downer".
- drjesusphd 11y agoAs an American, I find this attitude disturbing as well. It's like there's a cultural repulsion to talking about anything of consequence. And we wonder why US politics is in the state that it's in...
- nommm-nommm 11y ago> Where did you get that I don't enjoy jokes? You should read this - http://tirania.org/blog/archive/2011/Feb-17.html http://tirania.org/blog/archive/2011/Feb-17.html excerpt: "But our engineering strength is also our social weakness. Countless times as engineers you will find yourself interrupting someone telling a story, an anecdote or a joke to correct a false assumption, provide an extra fact that the narrator overlooked, give a bigger perspective on the problem or point out that the joke premise is actually flawed. You can identify this behavior because the person interrupting usually starts with the phrase "Well, actually...". As a kid, I thought this was my strength. I knew a little bit more than my sister. So whenever she would say something, I would quickly interject something like "Well, actually, the origin of the word Shih Tzu means Lion Dog and has nothing to do with the dog's digestive patterns". Yes, I was really fun to hang out with. Whoever pulls a "well, actually" almost always shifts the conversation to himself. And now we are no longer following along with your friend's joke, we get to learn how much more you know about the limitations of the Sun Protection Factor scale in sunblock products. Even the most rudimentary of the well-actuallistas is able to spoil even the best Ricky Gervais material. But instead of rolling with the punches and participating in a brainstorm of ideas and exploding humor, they contribute interruptions, facts and details that merely produce stop energy on an ongoing discussion. They turn the center of attention towards them." ----- Similar with "talking politics." When people want to "talk politics" they usually really mean "Let me show you how right I am and how wrong you are if you disagree. Let me show you how smart I am." Nothing to do with being a "debbie downer." Now, where is that traffic?
- k__ 11y agoReminds me of my stepdad who always had to show of with bis fact knowledge. He even would tell some BS just to be right. Now we can simply look it up and be done with it.
- InclinedPlane 11y agoSomewhat in the same vein, previously the way to learn about something you didn't know about before would sometimes have involved reading a whole book on the topic. Which would leave you much more informed than skimming some google result. I wonder if that sort of thing is more or less common today because people can sate their idle curiosity easier.
- ergothus 11y agoIn my pre-web days, I found that generally you never found what you were looking for. First, someone would tell you "to look it up". So, travel to library, hit card catalog, find a few titles. Go to shelves. Somehow, 50% of the books from the card catalog wouldn't be on the shelves, but there also tended to be other books here that you hadn't found in the card catalog. Read books. While some topics were interesting, often you dealt with authors that did a terrible job of compensating for their biases, or did poor science. I have the same reaction to most news stories (which is why I hang out here :) ) It'd be like watching a 30 min youtube video while trying to find a single fact. End result: Still don't know your answer, learned some trivia, and have more disdain for the state of knowledge. I've found the accessibility of knowledge to be much improved these days, and have a better opinion of our collective knowledge as a result. I also still read a lot and gain a lot of trivia, but I'm generally reading material I'm more interested in. So I don't feel the internet-age has really hurt those areas.
- creshal 11y agoFunny, I'm in my mid-20s and have the same complaints about my late-teen-early-20s coworkers. The grass is always greener, etc.
- jghn 11y agoI'm 40 and would rather just look up the answer and be done with it. OTOH as a child I was the proverbial person who skipped ahead to the end of a murder mystery
- rmc 11y agoKids today, eh?
- ergothus 11y agoI don't really view it as an age things - for one, I still consider myself a "kid", and second, past a certain minimum age we have a mix of experiences and any of us is "the noob" in a given situation. It is, however, a bit of a generational experience. If you grew up using card catalogs and learning to spell from a dictionary (?!), your relationship with knowing/not knowing will be different than someone who grew up with the Web always around and accessible. I think it was Agatha Christie who said of her childhood "I couldn't imagine being so rich as to have a car nor so poor as to not have servants". Irony: I just googled that to confirm, and was mostly right but not quite accurate, assuming the links are themselves accurate: http://www.bradford-delong.com/2013/01/agatha-christie-i-never-thought-i-would-be-so-poor-as-to-not-have-live-in-staff-or-so-rich-as-to-have-a-car-and-driver.html http://www.bradford-delong.com/2013/01/agatha-christie-i-nev...
- ChuckMcM 11y agoI think there is a more fundamental question, why are some people curious and others are not? As far as I can tell this has always been true.
- anateus 11y agoI think you've miscategorized a distinction. I'm in my late 20s, and I share both of the proclivities you describe: I'm both curious about things and prefer to find out if it's relatively easy to do so. What you describe seems like a lack of curiosity, and I don't think easy access to information is a cause of incuriosity, though it could be a contributing factor. Curiosity, and by extension a general sense of play about the world, are sucked out of most people by adulthood.
- ergothus 11y agoThat's the thing that I found dumbfounding: These aren't incurious people. These are clever, capable, curious people. (lack of curiosity occurs in far too many people of all ages around me) It's just that they deal with their curiosity differently: They seek an answer, and are content with whatever level is currently available, and move on to other matters, while I revel in the uncertainty. Can't say one is better, though I'm obviously more comfortable with my version. Will say they feel very different, and I end up feeling alone in the crowd. Related: One coworker at my previous job noted that we enjoyed our high school interns more than than college interns because the high schoolers hadn't had their sense of wonder and curiosity beaten out of them. I'm still evaluating if I think that's true.
- Joof 11y agoThis is why the fun questions are unanswered or ambiguous. You can learn the process, but not the answer. Its a but more invested though.
- salmonet 11y agoFor anyone wondering, decease comes from the Latin word "decedere", which literally means "to go away."
- Theodores 11y agoIn the 'good old days' you could have a competition on the TV or radio that would require getting answers to questions correct. You would have to be very 'brainy' or well read, maybe even have educated friends to help you to get all the answers. You could also admire the 'genius' of those able to get the answers right. To take a simple example, where was such-and-such an author born? If you had grown up in the same village as the author or read one of his/her books then you could answer the question. But, if you had no such head start, a trip to the library or asking a well educated friend would be the only way. Nowadays, with Wikipedia, the answer is provided by 'OK Google' in the first paragraph of the first result. This effectively makes it impossible to run competitions on TV/Radio/print that require high levels of 'general knowledge'. In fact, even the phrase 'general knowledge' is not used as often as it used to be!!! Although it is great to be able to look up everything and anything instantly, I liked it in the days when there was some rewards and respect for knowing stuff that nowadays is deemed to be 'trivia'.
- ZeroGravitas 11y agoI don't understand this comment. I have a similar mindset to you, and am of the same age as you, therefore I can clearly remember a time when I was interested in things like this and I needed to look it up in an actual book, or even in the early days of the web, use quite complex skills to find the answer. To a rough approximation, no-one else in my cohort or older gave a damn about stuff like this. So are you remembering a different time when everyone was like this, maybe in a different country or area from me. Do your colleagues and friends of the same age or older all exhibit this thirst for (let's face it) mostly pointless knowledge? Or is this just a "young people today" cliche?