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You don't need to experience a particular kind of situation to know in what entirely different ways people can respond to situations. Moreover, I don't think o
by Confusion 17y ago
You don't need to experience a particular kind of situation to know in what entirely different ways people can respond to situations.
Moreover, I don't think of my comment as a 'rational explanation'. I don't just think you can think about a situation in multiple ways, I am sure that you should feel about a situation in multiple ways.
Being able to see, and choosing to feel, the brightest side in each situation is the only thing that can help someone cope with an absurd, unjust, world. Otherwise, you're just a victim of the emotions society presses upon you. When the last thing you did was shout, you are supposed to feel guilty. Doesn't every magazine say that; don't movies depict it? Thinking freely and ridding yourself of the cultural baggage also enables you to feel differently. Still sad, but with a bright edge, remembering the promises that lay hidden in that last argument.
- scott_s 17y agoWith time, sure. But even the first few years, I'd expect most people would feel bad about it. I don't see any cultural influence in that. It's how we work.