Question as is to me reads as way to open-ended to receive a response that applies to you. More to the point, to me it reads as, "There are so many options in

Question as is to me reads as way to open-ended to receive a response that applies to you. More to the point, to me it reads as, "There are so many options in life, what should I do?" To get the life you want, you must first decide the path you want, then find a way to travel it. My suggestion would be to focus on sharing life with people you enjoy being around helping solve problems that you agree are important to spend time on; everything else will sort itself out.