should is relative. I'm not sure I can agree that it's my responsibility to care how other people feel, or their responsibility to care how I feel. It's nice.

should is relative. I'm not sure I can agree that it's my responsibility to care how other people feel, or their responsibility to care how I feel. It's nice. And I'd hope that would be the default mode. But if you're having a bad day and don't have the patience for a lazy question and instead send me over to lmgtfy, I don't think you've done anything wrong. It's not your responsibility to provide me some service for free just because you've put some code into the world I think might be useful to me.